Good friend is ignoring me

[b-ball-lunachick]

So the voice mail that she left for me this morning was really sweet sounding. She said that she was on her way to work, and if I wasn't grouchy I could definitely call her. She wished me a great day.

This is when it is going to be really tough to resist the temptation to call her back. It sounded like she genuinely cares about me, but I'm sure it's just an act. She'll probably play the nice game for a while to try to elicit a response from me.

You're starting to worry me a bit now 26. No matter how sweet sounding her voice may be, it's what she's saying..."if you're not grouchy, you can call me". Huh? first she tried to just act like nothing happened when you told her off and now it's "if you're not grouchy, you can call me?"...you already told her you don't want to speak to her...

she's like the guy Chris Rock talks about who gets caught cheating redhanded and still deny, deny deny like it never happened.

Stay away from this girl.
Do not pay for anything to block her.
You can just ignore her - you deserve better.
Every time she calls and you consider taking it, think golddigger or whatever bad feeling she made you feel.
Remember you never even had great sex with this girl to have to put up with this BS.

Okay, rant over.

[YankeePride1967]

"She's Got Baggage" by John Fogerty.

She's got baggage
She's got so much heavy baggage
The weight of the world
Is on her shoulder
I wonder how she carries it around

Woke up, it was the middle of the night
Telephone ringing
so I turned on the light
What up
She must be calling me again
Night after night
And it's driving me insane

She's got baggage
She's got so much heavy baggage
The weight of the world
Is on her shoulder
I wonder how she carries it around

Got up, dragged myself out of bed
Nuclear explosion banging in my head
Why me, how did I get so lucky
A million other guys
She had to pick me

She's got baggage
She's got so much heavy baggage
The weight of the world
Is on her shoulders
I wonder how she carries it around

Hey Joe, say it ain't so
She called me up
then she put me on hold
Hey Joe, say it ain't so
She called me up
then she put me on hold

Watch out, we got another one comin'
Monumental crisis brewin' here today
Watch out, we got a whacked out woman
Hurricane warning and it's blowin' me away

She's got baggage
She's got so much heavy baggage
The weight of the world
is on her shoulders
I wonder how she carries it around

[TheYankee]

So the voice mail that she left for me this morning was really sweet sounding. She said that she was on her way to work, and if I wasn't grouchy I could definitely call her. She wished me a great day.

This is when it is going to be really tough to resist the temptation to call her back. It sounded like she genuinely cares about me, but I'm sure it's just an act. She'll probably play the nice game for a while to try to elicit a response from me.

This is terrific. You keep this thread going like you keep this relationship going.

[wang+cano=future]

She has an average face. Not one that you would gravitate toward, but also not one that you would turn away from. She has definitely gained some weight since high school. Could probably stand to lose about 25 pounds.

That + Crazy? Bail man....Don't respond to her.

[Hitman23]

How are the lookup eyes?

[Tyler Durden]

Stay away from this girl.
Do not pay for anything to block her.
You can just ignore her - you deserve better.
Every time she calls and you consider taking it, think golddigger or whatever bad feeling she made you feel.

It's easier for some than others to walk away from a situation like this, and 26 admittedly has willpower issues when it comes to this woman, so maybe spending the 5 bucks to avoid temptation isn't such a bad idea.

I did at the "if YOU'RE not grouchy..." part, though. She's dismissive and delusional.

[4bronxbombers]

Passive-aggressive. She really should grow the f*ck up.


How long will this thread last?

[xenadanielle]

Passive-aggressive. She really should grow the f*ck up.


How long will this thread last?

I was just going to post "This is still going on?"

I started to reply a few days ago then thought better of it. My advice on these kinds of matters? Not so great.

[4bronxbombers]

I was just going to post "This is still going on?"

I started to reply a few days ago then thought better of it. My advice on these kinds of matters? Not so great.

Well it was near the bottom of the page this morning and I was secretly hoping no one would reply so we can bury it.....but that didn't happen. Now I say, eff it....it's at the top again so I guess I'll post in it again.

[Tyler Durden]

How long will this thread last?

Until crazy women stop being crazy?

[4bronxbombers]

Until crazy women stop being crazy?

Men are sane? I think not.

[Tyler Durden]

Men are sane? I think not.

How do you think we became insane in the first place?

[4bronxbombers]

How do you think we became insane in the first place?

Touche.

[TheYankee]

Men are sane? I think not.

Based on this thread, hell no.

[4bronxbombers]

Based on this thread, hell no.

Good point

[b-ball-lunachick]

It's easier for some than others to walk away from a situation like this, and 26 admittedly has willpower issues when it comes to this woman, so maybe spending the 5 bucks to avoid temptation isn't such a bad idea.

I did at the "if YOU'RE not grouchy..." part, though. She's dismissive and delusional.

and don't forget manipulative. She's not too bad at it either but she doesn't realize he has 25 people pointing it out to him.

I know what you're saying - imagine if he was really attracted to her and didn't know she was batsh#t crazy? can't always help who you fall for I suppose..I certainly had a few winners myself.

Well it was near the bottom of the page this morning and I was secretly hoping no one would reply so we can bury it.....but that didn't happen. Now I say, eff it....it's at the top again so I guess I'll post in it again.

Bury it? this whole thread is entertaining as hell.

[Hitman23]

Honestly I don't know what anyone is complaining about. This thread delivers.

[Tyler Durden]

Best thread we've had in JC in quite some time.

[TheYankee]

Honestly I don't know what anyone is complaining about. This thread delivers.

Who's complaining? This thread keeps the business going.

[4bronxbombers]

Best thread we've had in JC in quite some time.

Yeah, i know....things have been dull of late....well until this.....

[Hitman23]

Bi-polar chick + guy in love with her = formula for great entertainment.

My marriage would have won awards if it were televised. I can only truly appreciate it's awesomeness now seeing it from the outside.

[26 and counting]

How long will this thread last?

This thread will last as long as I want it to. Admit it, all of you love this thread! I'm doing this for your entertainment!

I should call her up and say, "I'll listen to your BS as long as you give me hot steamy sex at least five times per week."

[LongLiveBernie51!]

This thread will last as long as I want it to. Admit it, all of you love this thread! I'm doing this for your entertainment!

I should call her up and say, "I'll listen to your BS as long as you give me hot steamy sex at least five times per week."

keep dreaming

[TheYankee]

This thread will last as long as I want it to. Admit it, all of you love this thread! I'm doing this for your entertainment!

I should call her up and say, "I'll listen to your BS as long as you give me hot steamy sex at least five times per week."

Then she'll call you a pervert and she'll get mad again.

[yankeeschic12324]

This thread will last as long as I want it to. Admit it, all of you love this thread! I'm doing this for your entertainment!

I should call her up and say, "I'll listen to your BS as long as you give me hot steamy sex at least five times per week."

I'm not even sure the ass is worth it at this point.
Stick with your hand, man. It won't ever be an idiot to you.

[26 and counting]

Then she'll call you a pervert and she'll get mad again.

So what?

[xenadanielle]

I'm not even sure the ass is worth it at this point.
Stick with your hand, man. It won't ever be an idiot to you.

It only took me 42 years to figure that out.

[teknetic]

It only took me 42 years to figure that out.

Are you talking about the hand part?

[TheYankee]

So what?

Yes, you've fully established that you're as much in need of her attention as she is in need of yours. I get that.

[Ram Man]

Somebody said that I could change the ringtone for when she calls to something different than everybody else's, so that I won't even have to look at the phone to know when she's calling.

Better than that. Download the "Silent Running" ringtone here:

http://iphonewriter.blogspot.com/200...s-forever.html

Works great. You won't even know she called.

[NyQuil]

How are the lookup eyes?

The lookup eyes can be a deal breaker.

[TheManKnownAsMecca]

I really hope you get her pregnant 26. That'll give the thread at least 9 more months of great stories.

[MassNYYfan]

Just hit it and quit it.

But really destroy the hell out of it in the process.

[yankeeschic12324]

Just hit it and quit it.

But really destroy the hell out of it in the process.

[ToneinTO]

I just discovered this thread and know I'm a little late but 26, you've received good advice. When you want someone out of your life, cut them off completely-block them from emailing you, delete them from your Facebook list and block them from contacting you, delete their phone number and do not respond to their messages no matter how much they try to bait you or how much you still want them.

Keep your head up and stay away from demons like this woman.

[bobbymagee]

Find a new friend, unless this is about a booty call .....

[NyQuil]

I'd tell you to f**k and chuck but I see you getting attached again.

[26 and counting]

Just hit it and quit it.

But really destroy the hell out of it in the process.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h8f7IvDxMiY

[Nome]

I just discovered this thread and know I'm a little late but 26, you've received good advice. When you want someone out of your life, cut them off completely-block them from emailing you, delete them from your Facebook list and block them from contacting you, delete their phone number and do not respond to their messages no matter how much they try to bait you or how much you still want them.

Keep your head up and stay away from demons like this woman.

This is the best possible advice you can get, but something tells me you will ignore it and get into even more trouble. Good luck to you. You will need it, in spades.

Andy

[ojo]

How are the lookup eyes?

LOL we need to have a beer one day.

that's freakin hilarious (and i'm stealing it)

[GordonGecko]

So how did your date with crazy girl go this weekend?

[Yanks1976]

So how did your date with crazy girl go this weekend?

It cracks me up how sure you arethat there was a date. Awesome.

[dabomb2045]

Is date short for "he caved in and called her, she acted nice...he got all excited and is now planning their future wedding"?

[West Texas]

So how did your date with crazy girl go this weekend?

[b-ball-lunachick]

has anyone seen 26 around since saturday? do we need to send out a search party or just send someone to her house?

[dabomb2045]

I'm betting there is at least a 60% chance he is camping out of her front lawn right now.

[THEBOSS84]

A lot of you guys in here are making it like it's so easy to just cut someone (no matter how messed up they are) out of your life for good. I've been down that road before. Not easy at all.

[b-ball-lunachick]

A lot of you guys in here are making it like it's so easy to just cut someone (no matter how messed up they are) out of your life for good. I've been down that road before. Not easy at all.

aww, sorry you went through that Sey.

I feel like we can joke with 26 about it because he opened up here and wants and/or needed the advice and gentle kick in the butt I think it would also be a little different tone if he was actually in a relationship with this girl - they were just friends.

[dabomb2045]

A lot of you guys in here are making it like it's so easy to just cut someone (no matter how messed up they are) out of your life for good. I've been down that road before. Not easy at all.

I know its not easy. I've went through it before as well. I'm sure he realizes we're all just messing w/him.

[Yankee Tripper]

- they were just friends.

And if you mean by "friends" - a crazy chick who was using him for sexual release while bitching at him, nagging him and being jealous of his non-relationship with other girls all while she is married with kids, than I agree with your definition of friend.