this may seem like a joke but its completely serious. heres some background info, i met this guy freshmen year (im entering my senior year) at some party since he is a friends roomate, he seems like a nice guy and back than i didnt know he was gay. fastforward to this past semester after i found out he is gay, im like ok whatever, hes a nice guy and my roomate freshmen year was also gay and they were both really really nice people. so i went over to his apartment (he still rooms with that friend) for a party, and he was complementing my ass..i thought he was just drunk so i just said thank you and went on my merry way. now a month later he IMed me and told me he wants explicit action while i was playing counter strike and i was pissed since the window popped out and got me killed while im trying to get ranked in the top 10 on that server. anyways, i told him i dont want anything in my butt and i thought that was the end of it. a month later, he told me im hot and all and i was like ok dude cut it out i told you im not into that kind of stuff. now he said he is visiting NYC with a friend and wants to "chill" with me. what should i do?? he is pretty muscular dude and probably could beat the crap out of me.